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Etiquette Guide For Escort Clients

Every business industry has a particular set of rules and regulations. These guidelines determine how we act or work to keep things running smoothly. The same applies to the sex industry as well. You might think it’s all just a simple call and an intimate encounter. But there’s more to this. If you make a wrong move, your first experience can go wrong in horrible ways. And you might not get a second chance again. So, if you’re a first-timer and want to know how to go about it, we’re here to help.

Here are a few etiquette habits you should remember while booking and meeting an escort.

1. Commitment

Once you book an escort, never turn your back. In fact, you should only email or message them if you’re sure you want to book them. Escorts don’t like dealing with people who set a date and leave them hanging dry when the time comes.

Commitment is also vital if you want them to see you as a serious customer. If you make a blunder on your first try, there are no second chances. Double-check your schedules before booking an escort. If you’re on a tight schedule, consider postponing your date for another time.

2. Choice Of Words

Ensure that you are professional with what you send while booking an escort. It’s all about good communication.

Never write anything specific or something that would offend anyone in your emails or texts. You want to be polite with them and provide all the necessary information. These include details like your name, date, time, place of meeting, etc. Everything should be clear-cut; otherwise, you’re wasting time and energy.

3. The Screening Process

You’re only halfway through, even if you’ve successfully booked an escort. The screening process determines whether you’re a reliable and trustworthy client. Thus, it’s essential to make an excellent first impression. This includes following the guidelines and meeting the escort’s requirements. Some escorts will ask for other details like a driver’s license or an advance deposit.

This is common practice and is usually listed in plain text if you find a provider online. For example, most providers on Skipthegames escort site will list their screening requirements prior to setting up an appointment.

If you cannot meet such requirements, you’re better off booking a different person

4. Presenting Yourself

Whether it’s a first date or an anniversary dinner, you would like to look your best. The same thing applies while meeting your escort. Wear your best outfit and professionally present yourself. No escort will enjoy their time with you if you are dressed shabbily or, worse, smell bad.

Make sure you have enough shower and grooming time after work. You want to avoid meeting someone in your 9-5 work clothes. Always trim your nails, shave, dress to impress, etc. Presenting your best shows, you respect your date.

5. Timing Is Everything

When it comes to meeting someone, timing is everything. Yes, we know how many dates have gone down the drain due to mismanagement of time.

It doesn’t create a pleasant impression when you are running late or arriving late. Remember that you have booked your escort for a specific amount of time. If your escort has other bookings later, you aren’t getting any extra time because of your carelessness. Furthermore, arriving too early is not good either. Keep good track of time. You can wait in your car or at a cafe if it’s too early. That way, you can meet your date precisely on time.

6. First Pay, Then Play

Never pay your escort after finishing the job. You want to pay first and then proceed with the action. Your escort would never ask you to pay first, which would be considered impolite. Thus, it is your job to make them comfortable and pay immediately after exchanging greetings. After that, everything else will fall in the proper order.

7. Follow Your Escort’s Guide

Not every encounter in bed works well with too much action. When you move too fast, you make it worse for both parties. We understand that you want your money’s worth. But you also want to enjoy and savor the moment. If you rush, you will end up ruining everything.

Therefore, you want your escort to set the pace. It’s always good to know each other first or even share a glass of champagne if there’s time. Once you get in bed, start gently. Check in with your partner and ask whether they’re enjoying it or not.

8. Respect Your Partner’s Wishes

If your partner declines something you want, it is reasonable to respect their wishes. You can’t always have things your way.

There are certain things you love doing in bed, but your escort does not. If you force them anyway, things will take an ugly turn.

You can also ask them to stop or request something else if it’s not working for you. Remember that such kind of sex is about what both parties agree to do together. If you work together, agreeing on certain things, it will be more comfortable.

9. Stop At The Right Time

This tip goes hand-in-hand with the timing thing we talked about earlier. Whether you’re satisfied or not, if the escort’s time is up, they will request to leave. And you should oblige with their request as they have other sessions to attend.

You won’t have time to cuddle or nap because escorts are professionals. They can’t give you extra time and will request to leave early to reach their next destination on time. You need to respect their schedule and agree with their requests.

Wrapping It Up 😉

Remember that escorts are professionals, and we need to behave accordingly. If we keep these etiquettes in mind, you will leave an excellent impression. They won’t hesitate to enjoy time with you again. Plus, we cannot always have things our way. Hiring an escort comes with certain cons too. But there are regulations we need to respect at all costs. Avoiding or going against them will result in severe consequences.

We hope this guide helps you if you’re looking to guide your first escort. If you follow all the steps, you’re in for a ton of fun.

Sex Work And Healthy Boundaries

Most of the time, we are led to believe that saying yes to things invites more opportunities and/or makes us more appealing. But the truth is, not every situation is right to give your consent. The same applies to sex workers. Remember this fact; the more gracious you are, the more they’ll take advantage of you.

Being a sex worker is nothing to look down on. In fact, most women claim it is empowering. But that only happens when you’re taking the right steps and staying in control of what should and what should not happen during intimacy.

Why Set Boundaries?

Setting boundaries may come off as a harsh step for those who are used to saying yes to everything. But if you’re a sex worker, this is the only way you’ll be able to protect your body and your mental health.

If you do sex work, it is always healthy and beneficial to set healthy boundaries to preserve your dignity and peace of mind. Know your limits, and don’t hesitate to voice your opinion. It also helps to remain current with resources such as the Sex Workers Project, which works to defend the human rights of sex workers.

Service Boundaries

We got to accept that every sex worker is different. They have different personalities, desires, expectations, goals, and more. So, everyone’s wishes and boundaries vary.

Take some time to think about what you would like from your clients. Of course, every day is different, and every client is unique. And your desires and energy levels are also constantly shifting. Some days, you’ll want to lay low, and some days you’ll want to unleash your wild side.

So, even if you set boundaries, don’t be too rigid because sometimes, flexibility is required when you’re a sex worker, especially if it is something that won’t give you too much pressure or trauma later on. Who knows, you might even enjoy yourself to the fullest when you try something new. Always remember to put yourself first before trying out any new endeavors.

Service boundaries can include your choice of clothing, access to certain body parts, and physical actions.

Time Boundaries

Time is everything. Boundaries around time are one of the most important aspects to consider as a sex worker. The amount of time to allow someone in their life will depend on different individuals.

Time is money, and only you can set a healthy time boundary. Make sure you don’t fall into persistent demands for more time if you’ve already set a limit. Consider the external factors that take up your time, such as driving to the destination, communicating with the clients and more.

Maintain a proper schedule and stick to it like a professional. Consider your abilities and stamina and choose a working time that wouldn’t leave you overworked. Self-love is key to maintaining a healthy work regime.

Compensation Boundaries

If you’re new in the business, it could be hard to decide what is and what is not acceptable. Sure, money makes the world go around, but would you be willing to sacrifice your peace and dignity for something you aren’t comfortable with?

Set your worth. For how much are you willing to make yourself available to your clients? How much do you think you deserve for the service that you offer?

Don’t stoop too low by making yourself very cheap. You’re an amazing being and worth more than what the world thinks of you. Don’t be disheartened if a client cannot afford you. There isn’t just one fish in the sea.

Those who know your worth will have no complaints about your rate. Don’t let someone’s narrow mind and average status prompt you to lower your standards.

Also, remember, don’t be tempted to do something irrelevant just to bag some extra cash. Once you break your healthy boundaries for money, there is a chance that your clients will see you as a puppet whose morals can be bent with money. Stay precious.

Client Boundaries

The world is filled with so many different types of people. You never know what kind of a person your client will be. They could be gentlemen in bed but also, but they could be those people who enjoy aggressive sex.

Be sure to have proper communication with your clients about your service. There are undoubtedly going to be disagreements, but if you stand your ground, people will eventually take your limits seriously. Whether it is a regular client or someone who’s offering lots of money, learn to say no if the activities entail what you don’t want to do.

As long as you feel comfortable in your skin and body, there is nothing wrong with being a sex worker. You’re embracing your flawless beauty and channeling it for a living.

Being a sex worker means that you have liberty over the type of service you want to offer. If you wish to be respected in your business, don’t just go where the wind blows. Stand your ground, state your boundaries, and let the right clients find you.

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